How to Make Money Sexting (Make Money By Flirting, Chatting, and Texting Online)

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You clicked on this article – I know what you’re here for:

You want to know all about making money sexting, right?

Let me start by saying that yes, it’s totally possible to make money with sexting and flirting over the phone (even DECENT money).

If you’re interested in learning more about this side hustle keep reading, I’ll give you all the information you need to get started.

So What Is Sexting?

Sexting is when someone sends sexual or suggestive pictures or messages. This can be done through text messages, apps like Kik or SnapChat or even though websites.

Sexting doesn’t just involve explicit messages and pictures – it also includes more tame things like flirting.

Why Would Someone Pay For Flirting and Sexting?

You’re probably asking yourself, “Why the heck would someone pay to sext?!”.

It’s not just creepy dudes. I swear.

The people who pay for sexting services are usually men, but women pay for these services, too.

People might want to pay for a sexting session for a variety of reasons:

  • They may want an “easy” way to connect with someone.
  • They may want to explore certain fantasies.
  • They might prefer anonymity.
  • They could be too busy to cultivate romantic relationships in real life.

What Are The Requirements To Get Paid For Sexting?

Age Requirements

You need to be at least 18 years old to get paid for sexting.

Most websites will require you to be 18, there are a few that require you to be over 21.

Location Requirements

Most of the companies that I found require someone to be in North America (Canada or the USA).

Some companies do want you to have an actual US or Canadian phone number.

Just remember to check the requirements to make sure that your location is accepted.


Usually, you’re paid based on the time spent or the number of messages exchanged, which means it’s in your best interest to keep the conversation going as long as possible.

The best way you can do that is by being bubbly and sexy.

Speed (and Grammar)

There were quite a few companies that had a typing speed requirement (usually 25 words per minute).

You don’t want your client/customer to get bored because they have to wait so long for your responses.

Now you don’t need to have perfectly-written texts, but you need to at least be able to hold a conversation in English without too many errors.

How To Protect Yourself Online & How To Avoid Scams

These companies usually do a good job of keeping their workers safe and their personal information private, but you also need to do your part.

  • Stay On the Platform – If someone wants to contact you outside of whatever platform you’re using to communicate DON’T DO IT.
  • Keep Personal Details Private – You don’t need to ever share personal details like your phone number, email, social media handles, or your real name.
  • Pictures or Videos – If you didn’t previously agree (when signing up) to share pictures or videos, DON’T DO IT.
  • Pay To Work – Any places that require you to “invest” or pay money to get a sexting job is most likely a scam.

Where To Find Sexting Jobs


Phrendly is an app where you can make money by flirting. Here’s how it works: a person will buy you a virtual “drink” so they can flirt and talk to you. Every drink you receive, you get money! REAL money!

What I like about Phrendly is that it’s just for online relationships, there’s never any pressure to meet up in real life or to take interactions off of the app!

How Much Do They Pay?

Phrendly pays you $0.35 per message, 70% of phone and video call earnings, and 90% of gifts.

How Do You Get Paid?

Phrendly will only pay by direct deposit to a US bank account or via check. They do not pay via PayPal, Payoneer, or wire transfer.

When Do You Get Paid?

Phrendly offers two options for payment frequency:

  • Express Pay – The payment will be processed every day and the deposit can take up to 10 days to show up in your bank account.
  • Monthly Direct Deposit – Your payment will be processed on the first of each month and could take up to 10 days to show up in your bank account.

You also need at least $10 in eligible earnings to be paid.


Text121Chat is a company that provides phone sex, and sexting services. They have locations in both the US and the UK.

For sexting, they let you choose your hours (they only ask that you send at least 2000 messages a month).

How Much Do They Pay?

I couldn’t find any information about their specific payment structure.

How Do You Get Paid?

I couldn’t find any information about their specific payment structure.

When Do You Get Paid?

According to their application form, payments are made on the 21st for all work completed the PREVIOUS month.

Chat Recruit

Chat Recruit is an online service that provides adult cams, sexting, phone chat, and psychic chat. They let you choose your own hours (no minimum number of hours needed).

How Much Do They Pay?

According to their FAQ section, you can make around $2 per minute.

How Do You Get Paid?

They pay by bank transfer only (if you’re in the UK), if you’re outside of the UK, they pay via International Wire Transfer (using SWIFT codes).

When Do You Get Paid?

UK residents can choose bi-monthly, monthly, or weekly payments. Everyone else has an option of bi-monthly or monthly payments.

Lip Service

Lip Service is an alternative staffing agency that provides phone “actress” jobs, text shat jobs, and customer service jobs. They request that you work at least 25 hours per week, have a dedicated landline or cell phone with a headset, live in the US or Canada, and have a computer with access to email and internet.

How Much Do They Pay?

I couldn’t find any information about their specific payment structure.

How Do You Get Paid?

I couldn’t find any information about their specific payment structure.

When Do You Get Paid?

I couldn’t find any information about their specific payment structure.


MyGirlFund is an online website where you can earn money by chatting and sending pictures or videos.

How Much Do They Pay?

When someone is chatting with you or wants to pay for a personal video or picture you are given “credits”. Each credit is worth $1 and your share of the credit depends on how active you are on the website and how many credits you receive.

How Do You Get Paid?

You can get paid with a Skrill account (kind of like PayPal), or you can request a direct deposit to your bank account or can choose a check.

When Do You Get Paid?

I could not find an answer to this. It seems like you’re able to just request payment whenever you reach the “threshold”.

Other Places To Find Sexting Jobs:

  • FlirtBucks – Get paid for flirting through text or video chat.
  • ChatOperatorJobs – Earn money by chatting! Earn $0.20 per message. (You must be at least 25 years old and you must have a PayPal account).
  • AdultChatJobs – This is the UK version of ChatOperatorJobs. Get paid for phone sex or by chatting through text.
  • Adult Staffing – This is a job board for adult jobs, you can find cam jobs, phone sex jobs, and text chat jobs.
  • Arousr – Make money with chatting, phone sex, and video chat.
  • TextKings – Make money by being a text chat operator. (This is open to people in the US, UK, CA, and AUS).
  • Textlicious – This is a forum for phone sex workers, webcam actresses, and sexters.

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